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When Family Hurts: 5 Ways to Improve Family Relationships

by Dawn Wiggins | Aug 13, 2018 | Divorce, Family, Forgiveness, Hope

parents fighting, child closes her ears with her hands, representing the topic when family hurts and 5 ways to improve family relationships I spent too many years hoping that my loved ones would acknowledge my pain and own their part. I have since learned that even receiving an apology is not enough to release the hurt.

To release hurt we have to let go of the need for the past or the present to be different.

If you can focus on these 5 things, you will experience more peace in your family relationships.

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How to Heal from a Divorce You Didn’t Want

by Dawn Wiggins | Mar 18, 2018 | Advice, Change, Couples, Divorce, Forgiveness, Grief, Hope, Self Worth, Trust, Uncertainty

Sad lady looking at her wedding band after an unwanted divorce So you got divorced. Are you wondering how to heal from a divorce you didn’t want? It sucked. More than anything. Ever. I mean “What The H*!!”. You spent the majority of your adult life trying to make this marriage thing work. You put up with crap you didn’t love, but it was worth it to you. Having a family, a person and a life together mattered to you. And then, you got the news.
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How to Deal with Infidelity in a Marriage: Marriage Counseling Client Example

by Dawn Wiggins | Dec 31, 2017 | Advice, Change, Couples, Divorce, Family, Forgiveness, Hope, Marriage, Relationships, Self Worth, Trust, Uncertainty

How to deal with infidelity in a marriage?

She had an affair. The husband called me desperate for help saving his marriage. They have children together.

He didn’t want to tear up his family. He felt completely out of control, grief-stricken and didn’t know what to believe.

She swore it wasn’t physical, but he just couldn’t accept that idea.

How to Deal with Infidelity in a Relationship When You Feel Scared, Overwhelmed and Judged

We spoke on the phone for quite a while. I knew he was scared and overwhelmed. I scheduled their initial couples counseling appointment and assured him there was a solution.

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How These Marriage Counseling Blogs Can Change Your Life Forever

by Dawn Wiggins | Jul 31, 2017 | Books, Change, Codependency, Couples, Divorce, Marriage, Relationships, Self Worth, Trust

open laptop with Dawn Wiggins Therapy marriage counseling's Key Largo and Boca Raton page open, symbolizing the power of marriage counseling blogs How can marriage counseling blogs change your life? Because marriage is tough and you need tools. If you are getting married, you need to know. If you are married, you already know. I’m not trying to scare you.

I am actually a relationship optimist. With the proper tools and enough willingness, relationships can heal and thrive.

But do you have the proper tools? And do you have enough willingness?

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Forgiving Someone You Hate

by Dawn Wiggins | Apr 10, 2017 | Advice, Change, Divorce, Forgiveness, Hope, Self Worth

two goats fighting with each other, symbolizing the challenge of forgiving someone you hate Forgiving someone you hate is hard. Most people don’t enjoy the feeling of hatred. It’s an intense feeling and a burden to carry. Hatred usually develops following severe or repetitive perception of betrayal. These days, a lot of people express hatred towards members of government.

I am frequently asked about forgiveness. People usually feel it’s a beautiful idea, but don’t know how.

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Top Reasons for Divorce

by Dawn Wiggins | Sep 19, 2016 | Divorce, Relationships, Uncertainty

The top reasons for divorce are resentment, dishonesty, judgement, arrogance and insecurity. You may think arrogance and insecurity do not fit together. They actually go hand in hand. For some, arrogance is how they cope with insecurity. A divorce proof marriage has a strong foundation of unconditional love and acceptance. Let’s start at the beginning.

Do you know what your motive is for marriage?

Many would say … duh Dawn, I am motivated by love! Actually fear, family, religion, money and status are common motivators.

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Testimonials

I am a collaborative divorce attorney and family mediator who helps couples through separation and divorce. All of my work is out-of-court and I am always seeking new ways of maintaining the peaceful and effective focus of my work with the goal of facilitating resolution of all issues for couples and families. So a few months ago, when I called upon Dawn, it was with the hope that she could play a critical role in assisting me in a particular divorce mediation I was handling. The mediation was in danger of impasse if I could not find a way to deal with the concern that the Husband/Father may have had a substance abuse addiction and if so, how we would address co-parenting arrangements. I am not an expert on the subject, but I knew that Dawn was. She is not only an expert in terms of marital relationships but also has an extremely strong background in and experience with addiction, so I thought she might be a wonderful resource – and I was 100% correct. She helped the couple and by extension, me, to process and analyze the situation and work out an appropriate time-sharing plan. She was effective, confident and extremely professional. I would use her services again without hesitation!!

Enid Miller Ponn

"It is my honor to commend to you a person who exemplifies the highest standards of professionalism and clinical skill. I have known and worked with Dawn and have been inspired by her listening skills,compassion and integrity."

Rabbi Mitch

"Dawn Wiggins changed my life. After years of hating myself, years thinking that I wasn't good enough, years thinking that my life was worthless, years of wishing I would just be dead, Dawn helped me love myself and made me realize that there is nothing wrong with me and from there life got beautiful. Thank you "Dr." Dawn! <3"

Lauren B

“We truly believe that we would not be together today if it weren't for Dawn. We knew we loved each other, and wanted to remain together, but we needed someone to help us work through some of our issues. Dawn carefully navigated our concerns, and helped us grow closer together. Some sessions would begin with us as far apart as we could get, both physically and emotionally, but they always ended with us cuddled up together or holding hands. We owe the honest, committed, and loving relationship we have today to Dawn. There isn't a doubt in our minds.”

SG & P

“Joining the women's group has been one of the best decisions I've ever made. I was resistant at first, especially since I've always had trouble building and maintaining relationships with other women. But group became a safe place for me to share my thoughts, emotions, and fears. So much so, that I began to look forward to our time together each week. Group therapy supported the things I was trying to work on in individual sessions, and was instrumental in the personal growth I have experienced to date.”

S.K.

“When I began seeing Dawn, I was in a pretty dark place. I had tried therapy before, but it never seemed to work for me, and I was still struggling with depression and some deep-rooted pain. Over time, I had become really blocked off from the world around me, and I honestly had little faith that she could help me. I am blessed to say that I was wrong. Her compassionate approach, combined with her unwavering spiritual foundation, was exactly what I needed. I am excited to live my life today, and even more excited for my future.”

Samantha G.

"Dawn was helpful when I needed someone to talk to through a difficult time in my life. She listened and understood me, allowing me to be open with my feelings without prejudice. I followed with her suggestions and was amazed at her insight. Through her coaching and advice, I was able to become grounded and confident in my own abilities again, and to move forward with my life in a positive manner. I will always be grateful for our sessions!"

M.S.

“I have been seeing Dawn for the past 3 years and can honestly say she has contributed to my growth and progress tremendously. Through her traditional as well as holistic approach, I have been able to improve my anxiety, learn crucial life skills and most of all learn to be my most authentic self. I have taken advantage of both group and individual settings and each provide me with useful tools and a different perspective. To have a therapist that is genuinely caring and wants to see me improve is an experience unlike any other. Dawn is first class.”

Molly

"Before visiting Dawn, my life was in a downward spiral. I suffered from chronic anxiety every day. I have now been seeing Dawn for two years and my life has changed drastically. I am reaching the goals that I have set for myself, including graduating college. I have created better relationships with my family, and best of all Dawn has worked with me by helping me manage my anxiety. I now have less anxiety attacks and I am more prepared to handle them on my own."

Samantha G.

"The quality of care I have received from Dawn is exceptional. She has guided me to explore my anxiety like I have never before done. After every meeting, I am more aware of my thoughts and I am able to face each day happily. She encourages me to continue working outside of our meetings and I see the benefits each time. I highly recommend Dawn and her practice to anyone seeking help. Her insight, genuineness and professionalism are unlike any other."

Ana